The Female Mind Control Handbook
“We need that touch from the one we love, almost as much as we need air to breathe”, this line from ‘Five Feet Apart’ is that one dialogue that reveals the importance of human touch in our lives.
There’re many kinda special touches women want from their loved ones. And also thanks to the guys who always stay busy innovating new kinda special touches.
But no matter what kinda touch it is, it always tends to carry certain meanings with it. Among all kinda special touches, one of the most common is the touch on the stomach. Women often have to deal with these kinda touches on the stomach and that often they get themselves confused in looking for the meaning of that touch.
TBH, one single kind of touch from guys can carry many different meanings depending on the situation and the bonding you share with this guy. Touch on the stomach isn’t an exception as well. As the stomach area is quite a sensitive zone, I understand your concern for knowing the meaning of this touch.
So, what does it mean when a guy touches you on your stomach? When a guy touches your stomach, it clearly carries a message of attraction, interest, and intimacy with itself. However, a touch on the stomach can also possibly be a sign of domination and harassment if it comes from someone unexpected. Also, it can be an accidental touch placed on your body depending on the situation.
So just as I said earlier, there isn’t one legit reason behind a guy touching your stomach. There are various facets to be considered and evaluated before gaining clarity on why this guy of your concern does so.
In this article, I will help you understand the meaning behind a guy planting touches on your stomach and much more.
Potential reasons A Guy Touches Your Stomach
Touches are sensitive, beautiful and establish the depth of intimacy between two people. Coming from a person you love, have a deep bond of friendship with, or planning to date, a touch on your stomach reveals his attraction towards you.
You see, the stomach is the midsection of our bodies. Any touch on this part is utterly sensitive. No need to confirm that by touching you on the stomach, he can control the next moves and lead you both to a very romantic and intimate flow of actions.
So in case you aren’t yet sure, why he touches you on the stomach or what exactly this guy is trying to hint, rest assured we got you covered. Here are some of the most common reasons behind a guy touching you on the stomach.
The first and the foremost meaning of a guy touching you on the stomach is the obvious one. He’s clearly attracted to you physically. Maybe your intriguing figure, body language, the way you carry yourself, dressing sense, the smell you wear, or simply your way of presenting yourself seemed very attractive to him. Not necessarily he’s in love with you, but definitely interested in some physical engagement.
However, make sure to notice the kind of connection you share with him. If you have just met him at a house party and connected right at once and he touches your stomach, he is clearly hinting at a makeout. Whatever may follow, make sure that it’s comfortable and consensual.
Level Of The Comfort Zone
A guy touching your stomach also reveals his level of comfort with you. If this is a love interest and he places a quick, light, and soft touch on your stomach it means that he’s getting cozy and comfortable with you to make the next move. OR he may touch your stomach while kissing you on the lips. Definitely, it means that not only is he comfortable touching you, but also your comfort in receiving that touch is healthy.
It is important for you to make sure that you share a really healthy comfort zone with this guy before allowing him to touch any part of your body. As I have already mentioned, touches are sensitive enough, make sure you are not being uncomfortable when he touches you on the stomach.
A guy touching you on the stomach also hints at his intimate interest in you. Holding you by your waist, planting soft touches on your stomach on a date night, these body languages are not hard to read. He’s clearly hinting at some beautiful intimate moments with you.
However, you need to understand that intimacy does not necessarily mean sex. Dancing at your favorite song, having beautiful conversations, having fun together, and connecting with your partner at a deeper level of intimacy that is simply amped up by the light touches he places on your stomach, neck, arms or shoulder.
An Accidental Touch
Well, this never means anything in most cases. A guy could be a friend, colleague, or acquaintance who touches you on your stomach accidentally. In the heat of the moment, mistaking you as their girlfriend or following some courses of action, places an accidental touch on your stomach. There is nothing to be upset about these touches as it was accidental. It is that simple. You will easily figure out through the guy’s body language whether that touch was accidental or intentional.
A Friendly Touch
The comfort level we share with our close friends is indeed unexplainable sometimes. Giggling and fighting, jumping around doing crazy shits with a male friend is nothing new to many of my readers. A friendly touch from your bestie on your stomach, scrubbing you to a sheer laughter break, and giggling to make things fun and happy, carries a meaning of healthy and deep bonding of friendship.
It is simply a very light-hearted and happy vibe that you feel from this person. No negativity, no confusion, no drama, nothing. A good dose of healthy friendship topped with some sprinkles of giggle and laughter.
Things You Must Consider When He Touches You
Well, as you know by now the various reasons behind a guy touching your stomach, it is time to consider certain facts to justify it further. Before we reach any point of conclusion, I want my readers to get clarity around the situation in their heads right now.
Under What Situation Did He Touch Your Stomach
To evaluate a guy touching your stomach further, start with understanding under what circumstances he did so. Did he touch you in public while hanging out with other friends? Did he touch you when you guys were spending time alone, or he touched you just by mistake guessing you were his girlfriend? Touches under certain situations mean certain things.
In public, he would possibly do so if he’s a great friend and shares a healthy comfort zone strong enough to do so. But in private the same thing was undoubtedly hinting at physical intimacy.
How a guy treats you in public and in private will often make it clear what his touches actually mean. No matter where it is if his actions come from respect, you have nothing to worry about him.
How He Behaves Otherwise With You?
Except for touching your stomach, what other parts does he touch on your body? How does he treat you otherwise? Does he show respect, care, and ask for your consent before kissing, touching, or doing anything that requires it? Or he takes random actions unaware and unbothered how that would make you feel?
These subtle and little things reveal the most when it comes to love, intimacy, and touches. You will have your answer simply by observing these little things in the guy you are talking about.
The Overall Vibe You Feel From Him
The vibe that you feel from a guy touching your stomach or another body part will also talk about his intentions towards you. Simply, the way he touches your sensitive mid-body is not something casual at all. You will feel his vibe and it will speak a lot about the meaning behind his touching or scribbling your stomach. It will feel romantic, safe, cozy, and healthy if the person feels romantically for you.
On the other hand, the touches will feel unhealthy, uncomfortable, and not right if the guy’s touch has come from dishonest intentions. Even if he’s trying to make out, he should ask for your consent. Vibes never lie and so does your sixth sense. So read everything, seek suggestions but always listen or make decisions from what your sixth sense says.
Knowing The Person He’s With Others
Reading the body language of a guy is easy. You may check out how this guy behaves with other girls around him and how he treats the female friends in his group. Does he touch other girls in their stomachs too? Well, if your answer is yes (which rarely is) then rest assured that either he is a creep or he shares a great comfort zone with them too.
If you’re the only one he touches in their stomach, of course, this reflects his attraction towards you. Take your own sweet time to understand this guy first and then reach a point of clarity and make a decision on your next move.
You see, simply by discovering the above-mentioned points, you can know this guy better and his real intentions behind touching your stomach. It is thus further easier to conclude the meaning behind the touches he plants on your body.
Learn About Healthy Touches
As we are discussing a guy touching you on the stomach and the possible meanings behind this, I wanted this to be full-proof content for my readers. The innocence you pursue a guy with may not always be the truth.
We often hear stories of friendly touches even from so-called comfortable people that have led to an unwanted and unnecessary course of action. Touches are very private and intimate things to a woman. It demands comfort and consent.
If a touch on the stomach or any other part of your body from any guy who’s a friend, colleague, or acquaintance feels uncomfortable and just not the right thing, it is important for you to be vocal about it.
It’s your body and the choice should be yours, but at the same time, leave the person in front with sheer elegance. Do not be afraid to speak your truth and make the guy know about what you feel.
Build healthy boundaries with anyone you do not vibe with. Unwanted touches are not okay and staying quiet about the same with the fear of creating drama or being judged is also not the right thing to do. When you stand for yourself, the world will stand for you.
What Should You Do?
Women often tend to get confused when they face such sudden uncomfortable situations like being touched on the stomach. Out of this confusion, most of the time they react in the wrong ways that they shouldn’t. Look, when you face such situations, first you must learn to control your momentary temper. And only then you should go ahead to respond to the incident.
How you should respond to the incident solely depends on what you want and how you feel about this touch. And moreover, you can’t and shouldn’t react or respond in the same way in different situations. Here below, I’m trying to roughly categorize some ideal responses to these kinda touches according to a few common situations women often have to deal with.
Go With flow
If you’ve liked the touch as well as the person who touched your stomach and want something to happen between you two, you can simply go with the flow. But always make sure that you’re making the decision consciously and whatever is gonna happen is with your consent. Hopefully, both you and that guy are mature enough to face and deal with all consequences of the decision you make. If so, be prepared, be comfortable, and go ahead next time. Enjoy your moment, nobody’s gonna stop you.
If you don’t like the way the guy touches you on your stomach, don’t stop yourself from being vocal next time. It’s your body, you’re the one who must decide. If you don’t raise your voice against it now, the guy can eventually take you for granted. And most importantly, it can lead to the weakening of your self-esteem. Please don’t let that happen. If you think that raising your voice is not gonna affect you in some other ways, be vocal. It’s gonna help you.
Be Wise And Avoid
If the guy who illicitly touched your stomach is a close friend or colleague or maybe your boss, and you think that your reaction is gonna affect you in other ways in the future, then be wise and avoid the situation for that moment. Wise men say that sometimes it’s more effective to be silent than being vocal just like a stupid. But you may ask, now what about self-esteem! Yeah, you’re gonna deal with it, but for this moment avoid the situation for your own sake.
Now we’ve reached the level to deal both with your self-esteem and safety. If the person who illicitly touched your stomach and you avoided earlier is someone whom you regularly have to face then start avoiding him from that day.
Maintaining a safe distance with him will not only keep you safe but it’ll also make him realize his mistake. If he tries to connect with you, respond with your attitude. Responding with attitude doesn’t mean rude responses. Rather always try to maintain a firm grip on your personality.
Talk about it
If the person who touches you on the sensitive stomach part is your best friend, or your boyfriend, or some cousin brother then respond carefully. One wrong step can ruin the bonding you share with the person. But don’t be afraid and be silent about the incident.
Rather go softly. Talk with him, tell him that you didn’t like the way he touched you. Never be rude or even harsh. Take time, sit together and talk. If he’s such a close one and truly cares for you, he’ll definitely get your point and understand his mistake.
I hope I was able to cover up all possible answers to what does it mean when a guy touches your stomach and helps you reach a point of crystal clear clarity. Never forget to trust your sixth sense calling to whatever situation it is for you. Happy Loving!
Before I close off here are some clear, short, and crisp answers to frequently asked questions by my readers on the main topic.
It is only okay for a guy to touch you on the stomach with your consent, no questions asked. If you know the guy well, are comfortable with him, and are interested in him one way or the other, it’s okay for him to touch you (again with your consent). Not necessarily touching on your stomach from a guy is always with bad intentions but also vice versa.
Men often express their love with action rather than words and thus they love touching their girlfriends. Your boyfriend loves to touch you as he wants to make sure that you know how much he feels comfortable, attracted, and safe around you. He enjoys tickling and seeing you laugh out loud and that’s nothing but love and happiness that you must enjoy.
If his touches feel comfortable, safe and healthy. If he behaves well, respectfully, and consciously with you, shares a unique connection, his touches will carry the message of his love. However, the most important way to know if he loves you is by directly asking him how he feels and why he’s doing so. It’s not wise to reach any point of conclusion with guesswork only.