The Female Mind Control Handbook
It's pretty simple. There are times when life gives us a treat, good fortune smiles on us, and wonderful things happen. One of those great things is being complimented. A simple compliment can make a big difference because it validates and acknowledges your existence. Whenever you feel forgotten or ignored, a compliment can bring a smile to your face.
Compliments that come from women are some of the most memorable. Don't you wish more people would say, "You are great at what you do"? Admit it. You feel good when people compliment you. And you wish there were more of them.
Women love complimenting men because it allows them to be nice, social, and feel good about themselves. You can bump into a girl that you don't know on the street, or she could be working at a jewelry store where you're looking for a gift. There are many occasions when women will approach men with compliments.
Whether the compliment is about your new haircut or that killer steak, it feels great to be noticed and appreciated.
Women love complimenting men because it gives them an opportunity to be nice, to be social, and feel good about themselves. You can bump into a girl that you don't know on the street, or she could be working at a jewelry store where you're looking for a gift. There are many occasions when women will approach men with compliments.
Have You Ever Wondered Why A Women Will Compliment You?
If you have, then this is the guide for you. I will tell you the different types of compliments and how they're given. It will provide you with a full understanding of how to read a woman's body language so that once she compliments you, you'll be able to seize the opportunity.
#1 Compliment From Her Can Be A Friendly Gesture
Compliments do not necessarily mean that she is looking to be your lover or even your friend. They could just be a friendly gesture, but they likely tell she is looking for a friend and nothing else.
Compliments are known to incite feelings of warmth in the giver and the receiver. When this feeling is shared, it could turn into a friendship. And that's no bull. Women just want to have fun. It's that simple. Everything else is just an embellishment.
If she compliments you, she's probably looking to have some fun. Leaning in does wonders for your chances! You're cute, nice, funny, and honest. You make her feel amazing whenever you are around her. So she wants to spend as much time with you as possible, whether it's dinner, drinks, or just hanging out at home watching Netflix.
But over time, if you keep up the compliments and make her feel like you appreciate her, it will eventually lead to more. If you receive praise, don't be mean. Make sure to pass it on. It just might bring you two closer.
#2 Oh Boy! She Is Attracted To You
She likes you!!! If she only compliments you and interacts with you differently from her other friends, then it's more likely she is attracted to you. A girl who has a crush on you will probably say nice things to you, probably more often than she does to other people. Her complimenting you is a hint: a gentle way for her to tell you that she likes you.
If she often communicates with you in a light tone, smiles at you constantly, nods her head when talking to you, etc., then it's likely that she likes you.
You can't miss the hints, can you? If it's clear that she likes you, then the most rational action is to ask her out before someone else does. If she wants you, what is keeping you from asking her out?
Guys usually take compliments as a sign of flattery. But the truth is women compliment guys because they like you and want to make an effort to get closer to you and see if there's potential for a relationship.
#3 You Have A Positive Impact On Her
You may have wondered why a girl compliments you as a friend. Women have a special way of complimenting each other. From telling each other they look good to know they care, the compliments women give are unique.
The girl compliments you because you positively impact her life, and she knows how to let you know.
For most guys, it is often confusing, but it can also be overwhelming. You can appreciate compliments from men, but there is more meaning behind the words when it comes from women.
So, next time a woman compliments you, take a moment and consider why she is complimenting you. It's not about the fact that you were simply nice to her, but she was happy with herself because of your action or attitude in being nice to her.
#4 She Sees A Potential Friend In You
Women will often notice when you do something right and compliment you. They will point out the little things like when you hold open the door for them or offer to carry their bags or wear a nice shirt.
It is not common for women to compliment guys on their looks, but your looks can be part of the reason she considers you a friend.
In a world where women pay more attention to you, it is a moment of awesomeness to understand that she pays attention to you because you have a quality that makes her feel good about herself.
She gives you the gift of love and attention. You are not just one of the guys.
#5 She Wants To Lift Your Mood
Compliments are a lot like truffle fries in a restaurant. They can be a fun appetizer, they can cheer you up when you feel lousy, and they've got a sneaky way of making everyone around you enjoy themselves.
Women want what they consider to be the best for them, and they detest any signs of sadness on male faces. It makes them miserable, and they want to take charge and make things better. It gives her a sense of control and validation.
When she sees you down in the dumps, she tries to do something to help cheer you up. It could be telling you how handsome you look in your favorite shirt or remembering that the color makes you look better than just about anybody else.
#6 She Has Some Ulterior Motives
If she compliments you and then tries to take advantage of your state, this is not genuine kindness. This is pure manipulation. If she praises you only to take advantage of your state, don't bother trying to understand what her compliments mean. You can use this type of compliment to manipulate people who are too kind to refuse any praise.
A nice comment is great, but you need to be careful of people who only give nice compliments because of ulterior motives. They may try to manipulate you or treat you badly. In this case, best not to trust the compliment.
Believe me or not, complimenting you can be a strategy that girls use to manipulate you. She's not doing it the same way many other people do. However, it's not easy to guess what that girl wants if she compliments you so quickly after doing so.
If A Girl Compliments You, Does She Like You?
It's not so hard to figure out if she is interested in you or not, especially if you notice one or more of the following signs:
#1 Does She Compliments Your Physique?
If she compliments your physique, this is a good way to tell if she's attracted to you or wants to get to know you better, eye to eye literally. She'll make a point of catching a glimpse of you often and may even engage in light flirting by complimenting you.
#2 Does She Get Conscious While Complimenting?
If you steal a glance at a pretty girl, and she bites her bottom lip before turning away, then hey, you're in luck. If she smiles at you, look into her eyes. If she drops her gaze to the floor or looks away, she is shy and may be interested in you.
#3 Does She Keep Herself Close To Your Vision?
If a girl compliments you, she is interested in you. When a girl is interested in you, she will look in your direction. When a girl is interested in you, she will orient herself to be within your field of vision. When she's sitting with her legs crossed, watch her feet. If they point in your direction, this is a sign that she may be interested in getting to know you better.
#4 Does She Seek Out Opportunities To Talk To You?
When a woman is sexually attracted to a man, she instinctively has the desire to get to know him better. In fact, another of the most telling signs that a girl likes you is if she goes out of her way to have opportunities to talk with you. She may seek you out at work, interact with you more frequently outside of work, or reach out via social media.
#5 Does She Compliment You On A Date?
Compliments go a long way on dates. They help break the ice and give you a chance to let your crush know what you're feeling. If you want the sparks of attraction to fly between you and your love interest, paying a compliment goes a long way.
A compliment can help make a date go smoother and allows you to feel comfortable with each other. It is easy to get tongue-tied and nervous when you are just beginning a relationship.
How To Deal When A Girl Compliments You?
In this post, I'll give you some ideas on what to say that makes a woman feel more attracted to you.
#1 Be Fun
One of the many things I learned from Ana (a girl I met in Prague) was that most women tend to get attracted to men who make them laugh and feel good. And if you're able to do that, then you'll never encounter rejection because it takes a lot of guts for a woman to reject a guy who is making her feel good and having fun.
One of the things you can say is, "You made my day." This is both a clever and a grateful thing to speak to a girl who told you that you're hot or cute or whatever.
It is a way of making someone like you without giving away too much, freeing yourself to explore all the other possibilities in life and improve your skills in this area. Regardless of what you look like or how much money you make, no woman will want to be with you if you can't turn a boring interaction into something interesting and fun.
#2 Be Confident
Sometimes a girl will compliment a guy. If the guy has any experience with women, he will usually be able to take her compliment in stride and show her that he is not desperate for any attention from her.
But suppose the man lacks experience with women. In that case, he doesn't know how to deal with a woman complimenting him because he hasn't learned about acceptable behavior around women.
Women love confident, strong men who know who they are. Treat women with kindness and respect, but don't be a wimp or pretend to be someone you're not just because you think it will impress her. Showing off and being a little bit of a joker will only make her smile.
Everybody wants to feel attractive from time to time. If a woman compliments you, she obviously thinks you have some quality that she admires. She also sees something unique in you. Start acting on those feelings if you want to create a spark with a woman.
#3 Don't Worry About Your Physical Appearance
Insecure guys make women feel bored or even annoyed when she starts to lose interest in them. But, secure guys keep a woman's attraction going strong because she's happy to be around a guy who makes her feel alive.
Instead, use the compliment as an opportunity to display your dominant personality, sense of humor, and alpha male attitude. The more confident you act, the more attractive you will be to her.
Being complimented by a girl is not only flattering but can increase your confidence and help you feel more attractive. So don't brush the compliments off as simply friendly; understand their intention, and find out what you want from them.
#4 Be Bit Of A Challenge
A man with options is more attractive than a man without options. A woman knows immediately if she can win him over or if she needs to move on to the next man. So, when you present yourself as a challenge to her, she will feel excited and attracted because it's a chance for her to increase her self-worth by winning over a guy who has other women he could be with.
Don't give her an easy ride. Be a bit of a challenge. Don't just flirt with her and be nice. Try to test her out and see if she can impress you and win you over.
A-List Of Response To Compliments
They are great for awkward moments when you don't know what to say. The replies are conversation starters that help you talk to new people, build self-confidence, and eliminate awkward pauses. You can use them in place of a simple "Thanks," and they will spark a more interesting conversation.
If you receive a compliment and want to respond, you can:
- Acknowledge the sentiment: "You're too kind!"
- Compliment the other person in return: "Wow, thanks for noticing my new haircut."
- Give a frugal response: "It was my pleasure!"
- Give a playful response: "Uh oh, I hope I can live up to such high praise!"
If you're a gentleman who is just a little uncomfortable with compliments, a good response would be:
- "I'd love to give credit to myself, but that would be conceited."
- "It's just a reflection of your good taste."
- "Thank you for noticing."
- "Hey, what can I say? I'm irresistible."
If the Compliment Is Friendly
If your crush or someone you know gives you a flirty compliment, they might just be trying to flirt with you. To respond to a friendly compliment, you can say:
- "Thanks so much- I'm so glad that you appreciated that."
- "Thanks- that's one of my favorite things about myself too!"
- "Thanks so much, I appreciate that! You're awesome too."
You have been complimented; now what? What if you think the person is really attractive and wants to flirt more? First of all, humor her. Make a self-deprecating joke. Treat the compliment as a joke, as a way of showing off your sense of humor.
If she is flirting with you, if her behavior indicates that she might be interested in you, your approach should be one of social reciprocity: you smile and wink at her, and treat the compliment as a small favor that you return by flashing back. You don't just say "thanks." You say "thanks" and throw in a little arm wave or head nod to show gratitude for her comment.
Giving and receiving compliments is an art. And accepting compliments is not easy to master. There's nothing worse than trying to graciously get the praise that you feel undeserving of, puzzling the person who just gave it to you.
But you want to be careful – not all compliments seem genuine – and there's always a chance that her words aren't meant for you. It's important to know how to read between the lines, as one girl like you does not mean she wants to date you, even if she says otherwise.
I have put together my best secrets that will help you gracefully accept the kind word at the right time.