Us girls are no mind-readers! It can be difficult to tell whether a man wants you to notice him. But let’s face it, nobody wants to lose a man because of missing some pretty obvious clues.
Our quick, simple and accurate guide will help you understand if a man really wants you to notice him!
The Top Ten Signs He Wants You To Notice Him
Use this guide as a quick decoder for signs he wants you to notice him.
1. He Dresses up for You
If a man really wants you to notice him, he makes an effort to dress up. But the real question is, how do you tell if he dressed up for you?
All you have to do is some research, how does he dress up when you’re not around? Does he put on extra cologne and wear formal clothes around you? You can also check his social media to find out.
It’s possible that when you are around, he opts for classic but comfortable attire, a nice parka jacket perhaps? Extra cologne and a new haircut?
And if you have noticed these things, chances are these subtle signs are already working!
2. He Likes To Stay Close to You
Men who are into you and want to take things forward, stick close to you. They are visual creatures and keeping you in front of their eyes are subtle ways to get to know you better.
This is one of the most obvious signs. If you find that this man likes to hang close to you and gets in your personal space, he likes you! Also, watch his body language around you.
If he is attentive, wants to make eye contact and is dropping hints through his body language and possible physical contact, he is into you.
3. He Offers Good Emotional Support
Do you have a guy friend who happens to be there for you all the time? Well, ‘guy friends’ who offer great advice and a shoulder to cry on are mostly interested in you.
When a guy makes an effort to be your support system and listens to all your stories, this is a great sign that he is interested in you.
So if you have a male friend who’s always paying attention, is only a call away and seems emotionally invested in your life, he wants to REALLY be there for you! He will perhaps get to know your hobbies, do some related reading and get to know you better.
4. He Compliments You…Like a Lot!
Who doesn’t like to hear flattery? After all, compliments are a great way to soften someone’s hearts…especially, when it’s a girl. One of the most certain signs in the initial stages of love is when a man showers you with flattery.
This is a man’s way of showing you that you are adored and appreciated. Dropping frequent compliments is also one of the most fun signs he wants to get with you!
And if it’s a shy guy dropping flattery, then this is the only conclusion that makes sense: he REALLY wants you to notice him.
5. He Is a Gentleman Around You
Men usually don’t act mature and composed until they are in the presence of someone they like.
It’s quite possible that you must have also seen a shift in the guy’s behavior around you. Is he suddenly acting like a gentleman?
Chances are the love boat is sailing! Trust us, this is not just a coincidence. A man who is into you, wants you to notice him for his gentlemanly ways. Otherwise, most guys act like dorks around girls who are like their bros!
6. He Makes an Effort To Hang Out With You
When love hits, we all just can’t seem to get enough! One of the top signs he wants you to notice him is when he always makes an effort to see you.
Whether it’s the quick meetups during coffee breaks at your favorite coffee shop or taking you to your favorite movie, he wants you to notice him! Making his physical presence a norm in your life is a clear sign he wants you to notice him.
The way a guy behaves around you tells it all.
So if you know a man who wants to spend time with you, listens intently with a head nod and is ready for future plans too, he likes you and wants to be your partner in crime!
7. He Tells His Friends About You
Know a man who’s friends elbow each other every time you walk into the room?
And that, ladies, is one of the telltale signs he wants you to notice him! A man who tells both, the inner circle and mutual friends about his feelings for you, is into you!
Sometimes men do this to ward other men off too! They mark their territory for a long term relationship. This is certainly not one of the subtle signs which means the dude has true feelings for you!
This can be a good sign, perhaps the man has been seeking relationship advice from more guys!
So if a man goes around making you known through social media posts he is ready to start something with you!
8. He Dominates Your Profile on Social Media Platforms
Know a man who pushes the like button each time you post? These are the things guys who are really smitten do! This is also a subtle way of making any other guy know that he’s into you.
Nice guys get your attention by keeping their comments decent and keep tagging you in funny memes (sometimes for the hundredth time in a day!) to keep things light.
9. He Tends To Get Jealous of Other Guys
There are some ways which count as mixed signals and then there is..jealousy! When a guy feels envious of you getting other guys’ attention, he is into you.
And if he makes a big deal of you spending time with other men, he is really interested in you!
10. He Really Talks to You
One of the other signs that a guy likes you is when he is open to having a real conversation with you. He will talk to you and go the extra mile in telling you about himself, the same way you do.
Having a real talk with you is also perhaps the first move he will make to start a relationship. Men who are really interested have no qualms about making the first move!
Wrapping it Up
Understanding the top ten hints men drop to show their interest in a woman can be quite helpful in navigating the unfamiliar terrain of your love life!
FAQs
How do you know if a guy is trying to get your attention?
You can tell if a guy is trying to get your attention through cues like staring at you, being too attentive and leaning towards you.
How do guys hint they like you?
Showering you with compliments is one of the ways men drop hints that they like you.
