Have you been picking on flower petals wondering, ‘’does he have feelings for me’’ or not? Well, it’s time to let go of the poor flowers, we have an easier solution for you.
While strong feelings can hardly ever be silenced, it’s not easy to spot a guy who’s developing feelings.
Fortunately, we have managed to put together some of the most obvious signs that he has developed serious feelings for you.
Why Doesn’t a Guy Just Tell You That He Caught Feelings?
Before we get started with the signs, let’s answer the elephant in the room – when guys catch feelings, why don’t they just tell you?
Unfortunately, men have been conditioned to not show their emotions or vulnerability. Sometimes, he’ll start acting distant too.
But don’t worry, if he has developed strong feelings they will come through.
10 Telltale Signs He Has Strong Feelings For You
Here are the most common ways you can be sure he is really into you:
1. He Stares At You…Alot
Know a guy who keeps staring at you, sometimes in a creepy way? When men catch feelings, they usually start by staring at you.
It’s also possible that everytime you catch him staring at you and make eye contact, he looks way.
This is because he is scared of overstepping but is also developing strong feelings and wants to be with you.
2. His Body Language Shows He Likes You
Ah, non-verbal communication always dropping hints as to intentions of people. When a man is developing strong feelings, you will find that he likes to stay close to you.
Maybe, during group hangouts, he’ll talk only to you and will also be faced towards you. That might happen for just a few minutes in the start but will eventually increase.
3. He Tries To Be There For You
Highly trained relationship coaches suggest that a man who’s catching feelings, will always try to be there for you.
Sweet gestures and support for your endeavours are some of the ways he’ll mount his footing in your life.
He’ll volunteer to pick and drop you at times.
He’ll want to be the first person you discuss your achievements and disappointments with and will be genuinely helpful with his tailor made advice for you.
4. He Shows You His Vulnerable Side
Any certified relationship coach would tell you that a man who shows you his vulnerable side, has true feelings for you.
When catching feelings, most guys tend to open up about their personal life.
At the core, guys are emotional creatures who also yearn for a romantic relationship, the same way other girls do.
He’ll feel comfortable in sharing his sensitivity with you and make you a part of his life and future plans.
5. He Showers You With Flattery
One of the signs he caught feelings for you is when he showers you with flattery. Out of all the signs, this one is perhaps the most enjoyable.
He will spend time with you, show a strong interest in your hobbies and compliment you often. He will not make small talk, in fact offer well thought out compliments.
Other signs include him observing every little detail about you so he can give compliments on a deeper level.
6. He Acts Possessive and Protective About You
If a guy has caught feelings for you, he will start acting protective and possessive. Heck, he might even feel jealous of other guys you hang out with!
This is actually one of the most telltale signs that he has caught feelings for you, serious ones! He will want to be your relationship hero and will make a big deal out of you spending time with other men.
So next time a guy acts weird about you spending time with other men, it’s probably a good sign that he really likes you.
Protective men don’t feel nervous around men, infact they actively mark their territory.
7. He Will Make You A Part of His World
If a guy wants to make you a part of his future, he will talk to you about it and invite you into his world.
Men don’t make the same effort for many women, so if a guy actively tries to introduce his world to you and talks about the future, he wants a relationship with you.
Most men are not good with words. But if he invites you to meet the people in his life aind introduces you to meet his friends, these are not mixed signals.
Any relationship expert will tell you that introducing you to his friends is a great sign of his feelings!
8. He Makes Your Presence Known on Social Media
Apart from regularly sending you text messages, he will post about you on his social profiles.
Perhaps a quick story about the lovely time you spent together or dropping sweet comments on your pictures, he’ll be doing it all.
9. He Likes To Have Deep Conversations With You
When it comes to real mean and not just little boys, having a real and deep conversation will always be on the table.
He will always try to steer through difficult love situations or a tough patch by sorting things out.
And if you find yourself in a fix, he will give you specific advice perhaps from a personal experience to ensure your well being.
He will be okay wth your emotional baggage and always keep the conversation with you real.
10. He Tells You He Has Feelings For You
Last but certainly not the least, the man is going to gather courage and walk up to you with his heart on a platter.
He is going to tell you that he has strong feelings for you and is willing to do whatever it takes to be with you.
Be it a long distance relationship or anything else, he will be willing to go the extra mile for you.
Wrapping it Up
Struggling with a man’s true intentions and feelings? Every woman experiences this uncertainty atleast once.
If a man has not yet come clean about his feelings, you can use our top ten hints on whether he has developed feelings for you to find the answer you have been looking for.
FAQs
How does a man act when he’s falling in love?
When a man is in love, his actions and behavior around you will change. He will act more caring around you and will want to stay together often.
How Does a Man show is love without saying it?
When a man wants to show his love without saying it, he will make an effort to stay physically close to you.
