Ladies, it’s time to rip the band-aid off. Sure, finding out that the guy you are into doesn’t return your feelings can be harsh. But that doesn’t mean you continue hiding from the bitter truth.
Today, we are here to discuss some of the indications he’s not into you.
Use these warning signals and obvious signs to chart your next steps, and remember, ladies, don’t ever let a whether a guy likes you or not determine your self-worth!
Top 10 Warning Signs He’s Not Into You
1. He Never Contacts You First
In the dating world, it’s common practice for a guy who likes you to contact you and stay in touch.
But if you are always the first one to text or call him, this is a very good sign that he’s not into you!
Don’t be fooled by his incessant ‘’I have been busy’’ excuses!
A man who has feelings for you will always want to stay in touch and be keen to listen to you..and you will certainly not always be the first one making contact!
And woman, if it takes hours for him to respond to a text….you know what to do.
2. He Doesn’t Spend Time With You
If you have been looking for a definite sign, this is just what you need. Out of all the signs that we discuss here, this one’s really important!
A guy who doesn’t want to spend with you or is ALWAYS ‘’too busy’’ to hang out clearly doesn’t feel for you and is just adding emotional distance…unless he is the co-founder of a million-dollar company and can’t take you on a proper date.
And worse yet, if he is too busy to spend time with you but has time for his friends? Use this dating advice: it’s time to limit this guy to the friend zone only.
3. He’s Flirting With Other Women
This one is going to hurt! But it doesn’t take a relationship expert to tell you that a man who’s flirting and spending time with other women is not into you.
This is also a red flag because this means he’s not ready to commit to you and wants to spice up his love life with other girls. Most women don’t put up with such behavior, especially in a relationship!
A person who is really interested in you will pay full attention to you and plan a future with you instead of going after other women.
4. His Body Language is Off
Body language can be one of the subtle signs that he probably doesn’t like you the same way you do.
For example, if he never makes eye contact while speaking to you or shifts uncomfortably every time you walk in, he is probably not interested in you.
You should also look for other small details; for example, he is never facing you while talking or is not interested in listening; this relationship is not really headed anywhere.
5. He Doesn’t Show up on Significant Events
One of the biggest signs that he is not interested in you is if he doesn’t pay heed to your life’s events!
Him not showing up to the important events means that he doesn’t really hold any interest in you.
On the day of your event, it’s like an ‘’emergency commitment’’ suddenly comes up. If he really liked you, he would have made an effort to show up.
This means that he is not interested in what goes on in your life and treats you like a friend or acquaintance. It’s time to reevaluate how much time this person deserves.
6. He’s Okay With You Seeing Other Guys
A guy comfortable with letting you date or see other guys are dropping clear signs that he is not interested in having a relationship with you.
Any guy who holds even a bit of interest in you will be a bit jealous to see you meeting other men on a Friday night and hanging out. In serious relationships, there is no space for a new person.
And if you have started dating someone else and he is cool with that, you are probably just a booty call for him. He’s probably just using you for sex.
And if sex wasn’t the only thing you were expecting..it’s time for putting this relationship away and using all your time elsewhere.
7. He Doesn’t Post Pictures With You
If you’re looking for more red flags, then a man who doesn’t add pictures with you on social media is probably not into you. Usually, a man who is into a girl will like to mark his territory and show her off on his social profiles.
8. He Doesn’t Introduce You To His Friends
If you still haven’t met each other’s friends, it’s time to have a talk and discuss what’s going to happen next with this…arrangement.
Usually, when you fall in love or start a serious relationship, it’s common practice to meet important people like friends and family in each other’s lives.
9. He Doesn’t Really Put Effort
If you notice something common between all of the indications we have discussed before, you’ll notice that a man who is showcasing these indications is actually making no effort in being with you.
He doesn’t do nice things for you, never has time, doesn’t want to hear your life stories – of course, he doesn’t care! Maybe your gut has been telling you this all along.
10. He Tells You He Is Not Into You
Last but certainly not the least…if a man has the ‘’talk’’ with you about not being into you, you don’t really need any more signals, do you?
There is no point in giving this man any more thought.
Wrapping it Up
You don’t have to sign up for a free newsletter to get this advice – if the man you liked has dropped any or most of the signals we have discussed above, it’s time to end his story right here.
FAQ
How do you know he is not that into you?
You can tell that he is not that into you if he never has time to meet you, doesn’t contact you first, and doesn’t connect emotionally.
How can you tell if he’s into you?
If a guy really likes you, he will shower you with compliments, come to meet you, and will be there for you.
