You know that sinking feeling in your heart that makes you wonder if he is into the other woman? Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon for a man to fall for another woman.
While it’s a heartbreaking situation be in, there are some tell tale signs that can tell you you’re not the only woman in his mind and soul. And once you discover the signs, you know what to do next.
Today we will help you unearth some of the obvious signs that he loves the other woman. At the end of this guide, if the scale is heavier for the other woman, it’s probably time to move on.
Top 11 Obvious Signs that He Loves the Other Woman
Does he love the other woman or not? Or worse yet, does he love you more than you? Use the following warning signs to decode.
1. He Just is Not That Into You Anymore
No matter how busy life gets, a man who loves you will keep the emotional intimacy and physical relationship alive.
But when a man begins to distant himself from you, physically and emotionally, he has lost interest.
You’ll find that he is not interested in this relationship anymore. If he is making excuses to not meet, is distracted when you meet and always a texting the new woman, he probably has a new love interest.
2. He Gets Defensive When You Ask Him Simple Questions
An obvious sign of a guilty conscience is when a man begins to act overly defensive. Cheating can come from anyone, even a happily married man. In fact, sometimes married men fall prey to the sins of cheating quite often.
So if you are a married woman and you have a gut feeling about other women, it’s your right to gently question your man.
Or perhaps, you have been in a long term relationship with a man who is showing all the signs of an affair partner.
And if he begins to act defensive even if you ask him an innocent question, it’s a common sign that he is guilty.
3. His Friends Have Started Acting Differently Around You
This is especially true for a married man. Apart from the shift in body language, you can tell your guy is cheating if his friends have started acting weird around you.
When a married man or one in a committed relationship cheats, his pals begin to feel guilty too for hiding this secret.
Often, close friends are gatekeepers of a man’s true feelings hence they avoid being in touch with you.
4. He Has Stopped Posting Photos With You
A married man who really loves his wife would have no qualms about showing his love life off on social media.
A photo reflecting a sweet date night or a an anniversary post should be pretty okay with your partner.
But if all that has come to an abrupt halt and your partner finds excuses to not post anymore, it’s time to start noticing his behaviour more.
5. He is Not Affectionate Towards You Anymore
It’s a sad reality but a man who is into a certain woman who is not you…will stop showing affection towards you. He will probably stop taking you out on date nights.
He will no longer spend time with you, avoids eye contact and no longer makes affectionate and small gestures with you.
These are the other signs that he has lost affection for you and gained it for another woman.
6. He is Glued to His Mobile Screen
Is your man constantly texting one woman…who says is his friend? Does he make excuses for being glued to his phone screen 24/7, even on the weekends?
While we certainly don’t recommend going through his text messages, but if he constantly talking to another woman, your husband or partner is in the wrong.
7. He Talks About Her..Alot
Now this could swing both ways. Either the man will discuss another woman alot and fail to see how his feelings are showing, or he will avoid discussing her at all.
But one of the red flags in this scenario is when your husband or partner can’t stop discussing this woman with you or comparing you to her.
Another author posted that a man in love will mistakenly call you by the other woman’s name.
This is a clear sign that a man has her own his mind even if he makes excuses that he doesn’t.
8. He Dresses Differently
When a man falls for another woman, suddenly his self esteem and dressing sense become important.
When a man falls for another girl, you will probaby notice that he has improved his styling sense. Some other points include a new cologne, hairstyle and dressing up to meet this person everytime.
9. He Suddently Needs More Privacy
Has your man started asking for more space and privacy? He will shut you off to avoid a close search that will reveal his feelings for the other person in his life. He will try to keep his other relationship a secret even if it is true love.
10. He is No Longer Happy With You
No matter what you do, a man who has feelings for someone else will not be happy with you. And the worst part? He’ll never answer what is really making him unhappy but we’ll tell you.
The truth is that he is now happy with someone else. But don’t let this affect your own worth; you’ll make the right man happy.
11. He Tells You the Chemistry is Gone
Another point to watch out for is when he tells you the ‘chemistry’ is gone from your lives. This might be an indication that he no longer feels for you and another woman has occupied the space in his heart.
Wrapping it Up
The fact that your man is cheating and is in love with another woman can be a hard pill to swallow. But nevertheless, for you to have closure and move on, it’s important to understand if really is into someone else.
Using out 11 signs that he loves the other woman, you will be able to conclude whether it’s time to move on from a guy who is cheating.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
How do you know if a guy is two timing you?
If he hates going on dates with you, never answers your calls, disappears and acts mysterious, he is probably two timing you.
How do you know if he is talking to someone else?
Some of the common ways of telling include him being less available than he used to be, acting evasive and still being active on dating apps.
