Confused whether the intensity in his eyes is of love or lust? Romantic rejections can be brutal, so it’s always a good idea to soften the blow by seeing things how they are.
Unfortunately, men aren’t always upfront about what they actually want from you; your body, heart, or sometimes both.
This is exactly why you need to explore the top 8 signs he only wants you for your body, so you know what you’re dealing with.
Top 8 Signs He Only Wants You For Your Body
When it comes to relationships, the key information lies in the ‘’signs’’. So if you spot any of the following signs, you are just his booty call, and it’s time to get some perspective.
1. He Sends Signals That He Is Interested in Just Your Body
Girls have an excellent sixth sense when it comes to spotting men who only want to sleep with them.
From staring at your chest area to casual brushes on your knee, men will sometimes only show interest in your body.
Often, you’ll find him not paying attention to what you’re saying instead, he will stare at you or lick his lips. That’s a clear sign that intentions are only physical in nature.
2. He Doesn’t Like To Have Serious Conversations With You
You don’t need highly trained relationship coaches to tell you that a guy wants you just for your body if he doesn’t even have a single serious conversation with you.
He will only be excited about performing the deed every time you meet, and before you know it, he’s out the door. Painful, no?
Or maybe it will take him just a few minutes to start undressing you once you meet – but no real talk or discussion.
3. He Only Wants To Meet You Late At Night
As per insights from a certified relationship coach and personal experience, a man who just calls you at night is probably just reaching out for a booty call.
Think about it, men are not owls, and a real relationship hero will not just contact you during the wee hours.
When a guy is in it for your body and assumes you’ll both be sleeping on the same bed every night he drops in, you can safely assume there is no deeper connection.
4. He Doesn’t Act Like Your ‘’Hero’’
The relationship expert James Bauer came up with an interesting concept about a ‘’man’s hero instinct’’ and what it says about your relationship with him.
According to his unique insight, men have innate drivers, which, when triggered with the right things, compel them to act like ‘’heroes’’. When a guy likes you and feels heroic, he will often offer you tailor made advice, a shoulder to cry on, and be a genuinely helpful force in your life.
Remember, there is no room for mixed signals in a real relationship.
But even though we mentioned the concept of hero instinct earlier, it’s important to take this concept with a pinch of salt.
Sometimes, men are in love, but they aren’t necessarily heroic, let’s face it, this is the real world, after all.
You’ll experience difficult love situations, and only you can tell if you have a real emotional connection with a guy.
5. He Drops ‘Inviting’ Compliments
He’s not yours emotionally if all his flattery is about your ‘’body’’ or ‘how you look.’ But there is a bit of a grey area here because sometimes when you find people attractive, you start with flattery on how they look.
So to drill this concept down further, watch out for language when he openly flirts with you. Does he only call you ‘’hot’’ or ‘’sexy’’?
Or does he spend time with you and tell you he enjoys your deep chats and engages in pillow talk with you?
Look for cues.
6. He Is Still Pursuing Another Girl
A man who truly likes you will have no room for pursuing other girls in his life, even if you’re experiencing a tough patch. But you’ll find that guys who only want you physically will still be getting it on with other women.
And worse yet, he’ll make you feel pressured to sleep with him.
7. He Doesn’t Make Any Effort For You
This is the part where you should hear your alarm bells ringing. If you’re wondering if a guy really has feelings or is interested in you, answer this, does he make an effort to get to know you? Do you find yourselves talking about real life?
Does he come to see you often? Get to know who you are as a person? Is he interested in your personality and what your friends are like? Has he taken you out on a real date?
If the answer to that is no, then he’s probably only interested in being friends with benefits and not giving you the full package. A man who does not make an effort to get to know a woman only wants to sleep with her.
When it comes to relationships, even the little things that matter. Going on a real date, for example, is important!
8. He Asks You For ‘Explicit’’ Pictures
This is one of the red flags which makes most women walk out immediately. There is a good chance that if he asks you for personal or explicit photos, he doesn’t have any real respect or feelings for you.
A guy who just wants you physically will expect you to share explicit photos of yourself. And this happens, of course, you need to move on because there’s no point in staying with such a guy.
And if you do find yourself in a situation in which you have already shared pictures, it’s best to visit a site where highly trained people can help you take the necessary steps. You can seek specific advice from professionals for more serious circumstances.
FAQs
How Do You Know If You Are Just Being Used For Your Body?
If the guy is not fulfilling any of your emotional needs and only calls you to engage physically, you are being used for your body.
How Do You Know If A Guy Is Turned On By You?
You can tell you turn him on if he initiates physical contact, stares at your chest, and if his voice deepens when he talks to you.
